The Biggest Problems with Online Dating Dating has changed dramatically over the past generation. For our parents and grandparents, it was about seeing someone across a crowded room and having the courage to approach them. They did their own matchmaking. An elite dating service like Elite Connections International wasn’t required. Of course, times are different…
I’ve owned my matchmaking company for over 25 years. We were in business before online dating existed. I’ve watched how dating and singles have evolved. In this quick paced time of the Internet more singles are becoming antisocial. They drag out meeting in person and are used to texting and emailing. They simply don’t want to pick up a phone.
For a successful relationship there must be human connection. You need to call, meet in person and make a connection. Texting is ok once you’ve established a relationship, but not all the time. If you text all the time you’re telling the person that they aren’t important enough for a phone call. Texts and emails can also be misunderstood.
Look around the next restaurant you’re in and note all the people texting. A table full of people texting people that aren’t there instead of getting to know the people that showed up.
If you’re in search of good friends and a loving relationship turn of your mobil and enjoy people’s company.