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DATING FACTS

By Elite Connections matchmaking team Sherri Murphy and Keri Roberts

As matchmakers at Elite Connections we have many years of experience introducing singles and we are extremely passionate about what we do. Our matchmakers will help you to find the person you have been looking for and guide you in the process. You may have some dating advice about what makes a remarkable first impression but we would like to also give you the perspective of the opposite sex. We asked our members about the things that made their dates unique, successful and memorable. Not surprisingly, the things that made the biggest impact were some of the smallest and easiest to do.

From a Woman's Perspective:

* He seemed confident and didn't call me several times before the date.
* He showed up with flowers or wine.
* He didn't talk negatively of his ex.
* He was happy with his life and job.
* He seemed interested in my life and didn’t just talk about himself.
* He had enthusiasm and energy for being there and meeting me.
* He had a great voice and was friendly on the phone.
* Together we had good conversation and he has interesting things to talk about.
* He offered to pay the baby-sitter or valet.
* He had style and great taste in clothes.

From a Man's Perspective:
* She had a great smile.
* She unlocked the door on my side after she got in the car.
* A sense of humor--it showed me she was on the same wave-length mentally and that she was fun.
* She called and said thank you the next day, or sent a thank you note.
* She held a nice conversation.
* She was full of vibrancy and energy but she wasn’t wired.
* After several nice dates she made me dinner.

We know being single in California can get frustrating. Follow our California matchmakers' dating advice and you'll see a change. Everyone just needs to give a little more effort.